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Avoid

A-void, if we look into the word Avoid, we can break into two different words A' & Void' In life we need to avoid negative sources of energy. Irrespective of who you are, student, job goer or business person, situation arise when you need to avoid some particular people or situation. You need to create 'A Void' and the source of destruction. Often what happen is, in the process to avoid we overthink about that particular and negatives. The negative emotions that we build within our mind create much stronger association, we think more and more and do the damage. The law of physics says, negative attracts. The negative thoughts that we feed in our mind attracts that particular set of object or person. Better remedy to avoid is, assign yourself new set of responsibilities, engage with better things, better thoughts and better emotions. When you are engaged with better things there will be no space in your mind to let in negative thoughts. Avoid does not employ you

Why FAIL is so noisy

FAIL, FAIl, FAil, Fail, fail When you fail, it creates deafening noise, for a moment it feels, your failure is the only news in the universe, people talk day in and night out about your failure and slowly noise diminishes. Nobody cares how much efforts you have put in there to create that mess. You feel dejected, you feel rejected, you feel lonely, you feel ashamed. You feel like a culprit. Often in the mist of hollow noises you forget to enjoy that failure point, you forget to celebrate that milestone and forget the fact that success is always next to failure. If you won't recognize your milestone why others will. People wants fruits not trees. It is the you who dared to plant the tree give it ample time to grow. You wished for the tree not fruits and tree is there. Fruit is a by product of tree. Success is a by product of your efforts. You need to be whole tree and not only fruits. Remember only a horse rider may fell down of a horse back. There are two kind of people in th

One person at a time

Phone ettiquete   Calls are important. You need to make and reply. When call must ask first if the receiver is in right situation to respond. When taking a call do not hold caller for the other person. When you are in a meeting with anyone do not take calls. When you hold a person for the sake of answering next it gives impression that man who was already engaged with you is less important. Systematic approach is important. Basic etiquette are important to make your business successful. I never met any successful person not having phone manners. On the other hand those less serious are complaint box, no manners, no systems, no etiquette. The way a person handle his phone from that I guess seriousness of doing business. On a given day a man was sitting with me we initiated a serious discussion, he took call in between and next I told him to decide first if the work in discussion is right for him. A given day I made a call to my office colleague, project was very important